As to be expected, she does her thing;
In an unfamiliar culture, it is wise to offer no innovations, no suggestions, or lessons.
Yes indeed, and how hard is that, at times?
"I'm always disappointed when people don't live up to their potential," she says to me. "I know that a number of people look down on themselves and consequently on everybody who looks like them." She suggests that this mindset is at the root of black kids thinking that to do well at school is to "act white". "But that, too, can change,"
Yes, I've discovered that so often, I think I'm going to stick with it, this time.
Sure enough, halfway through the interview she tells me I'm fat and suggests I pay more attention to the size of my portions. "You are going to have to lose that weight. You're too young and too handsome. Don't do it to yourself."
What?! Wait a minute.
Criticizing the magnificent GY's physique?
I have to take issue with that Ms. A, with the greatest of respect. Potentials can and will be fulfilled regardless of your weight as those of us willing to see ourselves as a whole person. Our fat is non detachable, and we are not a collection of bad habits.
Not doing so is one of the 'holes' we all need to avoid.
Amongst many other projects, she's working on a cookbook called. "Great Food All Day Long".
Ok Ms A. I won't tell the food police they'll have you up for 'encouraging obesity'.